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My Happiness Commandments

by Holly

I’m a champion list-maker. I find the process of writing something down, doing it, and checking it off so incredibly satisfying. What I don’t enjoy, however, is that for every item I complete, three more seem to take its place. And there are only so many hours in a day. And I’m just one person. And . . . and . . . well, all that doing gets exhausting.

Ironically, for a good two-plus years, my someday-maybe list has included “draft my own happiness commandments, a la Gretchen Rubin.” (It’s amazing how many fun, meaningful things on the someday-maybe list get brushed aside in favor of practical, boring things–like laundry and taxes–isn’t it?)

Fast forward to today: I finally made the time to create my happiness commandments list. What I love most about this exercise is that there isn’t a single task in sight. Everything on the happiness commandments list is meant to stay on this list. To-bes, not to-dos. And while I do love drawing a line through all those completed tasks, I’m quite alright with letting these 12 items stand.

So, without further ado . . . my list.

  1. Everything counts.
  2. You don’t have to. You get to.
  3. Invest in love–and invest in life. (And vice versa.)
  4. Quality not quantity.
  5. Great–not just good.
  6. Avoid crinkly things.
  7. Just do it.
  8. No apologies, no regrets.
  9. Rest your head.
  10. Everything is a miracle.
  11. Flap your wings.
  12. Foresake comparison.

Like Lucy, there’s some ‘splainin to do on each of these. But for now, I can say that I’ve written my happinesss commandments–and cross that off of my to-do list.

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©2012 Good Karma Housekeeping. Because making lists–on heavy weight, wide-ruled paper with a fine point Sharpie pen (preferably blue)–makes me happy. (Photo by donireewalker via Creative Commons.)

 

 


I’ve Been Waiting…

by Holly

To say it has been a busy year is an understatement. Though when isn’t it a busy year? Or week or day or evening . . .

Busy is fine. Good, even. I thrive on it. However, when being busy gets in the way of living–well, sometimes something’s gotta give. You can’t wait forever. You can’t keep saying, “when I have more time.” Oldest excuse in the book.

But what about when everything that’s on your plate belongs on your plate? Or maybe you just like having it there–wedged right in between this, that, that, and . . .um . . . the other thing. Sometimes, the only solution is to just add another course on to this feast that is life. Make room and dig in.

_________________________________________________________________________  © 2012 Good Karma Housekeeping. Because while patience might be a virtue, procrastination–not so much. (Photo by malfleen via Creative Commons.)


Bigger Better Faster More

by Holly

I still believe that less is more. But sometime less is, well, less.

But “less” and “more” are not apples to apples. It’s more like apples to rambutans. Or apples to kangaroo jerky. (Not that I’ve ever tried kangaroo jerky. Or a rambutan for that matter.)

I’ve written less, but I’ve worked more.

I’ve written less, but I’ve baked and cooked a lot more.

I’ve written less, but I’ve read more.

I’ve written less, but I’ve watched more HGTV. And TLC. Bravo, too. (Darn Housewives and their over the top, un-relatable melodramas.)

Less and more. Apples and rambutans. Writing and working and everything else. They need not be exclusive. They can not be exclusive. There’s room for it all.

It’s about balance. Taking a million (or more) teeny, tiny steps in the right direction. Saying no to the good–in order to make room for the great.

Oldest lesson in the book? Almost. Am I willing to give it another run? You bet.

_________________________________________________________________________  © 2012 Good Karma Housekeeping. Because Rome wasn’t built in a day, ya know? (Photo by semuthutan via Creative Commons.)

 

 

 


All I Want for Christmas Is . . .

by Holly

All I want for Christmas is a Christmas card. Yes, a card. With a pretty picture on the front and words, penned by you, on the inside.

Heartfelt thoughts. Well wishes. Future plans. A remember-when story. Whatever feels right. Whatever feels true.

Sure, I like things. Cozy sweaters, sparkly jewelry, and decorative knick-knacks. I do. But really, I have plenty. Your words, however, are one of a kind. Something I can treasure forever.

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© 2010 Good Karma Housekeeping. Because our mailboxes should be fillied with joy, not junk mail. (Photo by Aunt Owwee via Creative Commons.)


Cheese: It’s What’s for Dinner

by Holly

One of the drawbacks of going to yoga after work is that, by the time I get home it’s late. Like starting-with-a-9 late. If there are leftovers in the fridge, then I’m all set for dinner. Or if it’s a night that my adoring sidekick isn’t at hockey, then maybe we’ll cook something together. But more often than not, I’m left to fend for myself.

Cheese to the rescue!

I’ve come home ravenous on more than one occasion and chowed down on cheese and crackers while standing at the kitchen counter. It might fill me up, but it’s not satisfying. Harumph.

However, it only takes me a few minutes to put together a cheese plate—which always turns out to be infinitely more satisfying. Suddenly, my go-to snack is elevated to a new level of civility. (Plus, it’s much easier to be mindful of your portions when laying it all out on a plate.)

A few small wedges of whatever cheese you have on hand, some crackers or slices of baguette, and a couple dollops of sweet and savory condiments for jazzing things up—and you’re good to go. Don’t worry about what goes with what. Let your creativity (and taste buds) lead the way.

My most recent cheese plate for dinner included:

  • Gorgonzola dolce – a creamy, mild-mannered blue cheese with a smattering of green-ish veins
  • Monte Veronese latte intero – a mild, slightly nutty-tasting cheese. The tiny holes in the cheese give it a little “squeak.”
  • Parmesan – salty and crumbly, just the way I like it.
  • Currant jam – tart and runny and just the slightest bit sweet
  • Dandelion blossom honey –   thick, mild, and full of crystals. Pairs expertly with the gorgonzola dolce.
  • Onion-flavored taralli – seriously savory Italian crackers

If I had an open bottle of wine, I would have poured myself a glass. Instead, I opted for some bubbly water with a splash of black currant juice. (Bubbles of any sort pair nicely with thick, creamy cheeses like the gorgonzola dolce.)

Hungry? Short on time—but big on savoring your food? Grab a fork (the civilized way to attack a cheese plate) and dig in.

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© 2010 Good Karma HousekeepingBecause there’s nothing cheesy about eating cheese for dinner.

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