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The Yellow Handbag

by Holly

I was bad. A few weeks ago, I splurged on a new handbag. A cheerful, yellow handbag. Of course, I didn’t really need for a new handbag. Nor was it in the budget. But it was on sale. And did I mention, yellow?

I picked the handbag up off the shelf–the only one of its size, shape, and color–and draped it over my shoulder while posing in front of a full-length mirror. The image reflected back to me was summery and bright. Exactly what I was craving after this June’s never-ending rain. Exactly what I was craving after so many months of being extra mindful of our expenses. I deserved it. Woozy with want, that bag was mine.

At home, I tucked my timeless old leather Coach bags into the closet, vowing to make the most of my new purchase. From here until Labor Day, it would be my go-to bag. The following day, with my cell phone, lip gloss, notebook, sunglasses, pens, and calendar all in place, I carried the bag with me to work–along with a whole lot of buyer’s remorse.

What was I thinking?

Money aside, I had just willingly brought a new piece of unnecessary clutter into our home. A cardinal sin of good karma housekeeping. Plus, frivolous purchases are so last year.

Generous return policies certainly help, but I believe that saying no at the cash register–or, better yet, before even getting to the cash register–is the key to living a clutter-free life. It’s not always easy to stand by that belief–but returning the bag (and the money to my wallet) feels like a win.

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© 2009 Good Karma Housekeeping. Because less really is more.

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Plenty Is a Mindset
The Haves and the Have Nots


Donating Shoes: Soled On the Idea

by Holly

Inky keeps a nonchalant watch over our Soles 4 Souls donations.

I’ve never been one to splurge on shoes, nor do I have a vast collection. However, I’ve been hanging on to quite a few pairs that I no longer wear. Some are a bit out of style, while others are in need of a little repair; functionally though, they are all in okay shape.

Over the years, I have donated quite a bit of clothing to Big Brothers/Big Sisters and the Vietnam Veterans Association, but for whatever reason I’ve never really thought to donate my old, worn shoes. A few months back, however, I came across a photo spread in National Geographic‘s  Green Guide that completely changed my mind. (Check it out here: What Happens to Donated Shoes.)

Soles 4 Souls, the program featured here, collects new and used shoes for both children and adults whose lives have been impacted by tragedy or hardship. Inspired by the sight on television of a single shoe washed ashore following the 2004 tsunami that hit Southeast Asia, its founder Wayne Elsey, has overseen the donation of more than 3.4 million pairs of shoes to date. He estimates that, throughout America, there are 1.5 billion pairs of unworn shoes in our closets. Billion. I can easily account for a dozen or so pairs.

I rooted around in our hallway closet and dusted off the shoes you see above, bundled each pair together and dropped them off at a nearby collection site. Easy as that. Find a collection site near you. 

“Buy better, buy less.”
                                                                                                                 — John Fluevog

I’ve always preferred quality to quantity. Give me a handful of cashmere sweaters over a cedar chest full of pilly blends. A couple of classic handbags over an array of knock-offs. A few pieces of real jewelry over a mound of the costume stuff. But on many occasions I’ve cheaped out on shoes (a) because I’m pretty hard on them and (b) because they’re waaay down there and I don’t think anybody really notices (or cares) what’s on my my feet.

While I’m happy that I was able to fill the Soles 4 Souls box with so many pairs of shoes from my own closet (and there are more to come), I’d much rather embrace the John Fluevog approach and be more selective in my shoe purchases, thinking about the long-term socioeconomic benefit. While the dollar amount may be low, it’s the “hidden” expenses (like sweatshops) that don’t sit so well with me. I’m sure some of my shoes came from less-than-ideal conditions, but I’m happy to know that they will be put to continued use. And in the future, I’ll think twice before buying a new pair of shoes.

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© 2009 Good Karma Housekeeping. Because less really is more.


A Permanent Vacation

by Holly

A glass of dessert wine out on the patio at dusk

Today is the first official day of my staycation, and I’m wrapping up the day with a glass of muscat that has been sitting in my wine rack for far too long. After all, I’m on vacation–so why not celebrate a little, right? It has been a long, leisurely day, complete with a yoga class, stroll through Boston’s Public Garden, an iced Americano, a visit to a local day spa, lunch & dinner on my patio, and now a glass of dessert wine. [Edit: Add in a cup of vanilla soft serve with rainbow sprinkles.]

All that leisurely goodness has got me thinking: What if every day could be a vacation day? Would it lose its specialness? Shouldn’t every day be special? Instead, we (read: I) seemingly trudge through our days. It’s almost Friday. It’s almost 5 o’clock. Blech. Enough.

So, what is it that I love most about vacations?

  • The anticipation of all that lies ahead
  • New sights, sounds, and experiences
  • Good food
  • Good company
  • Traveling lightly (i.e., having occasions to wear all of my shoes)

While I may not be able to hang out in Sonoma, attend yoga camp, or dine at Henrietta’s  Table every day, I  can certainly cultivate that same feeling of pure enjoyment, of having everything I want–and everything I need. While my everyday life may not be packed with as many leisurely activities as today, with a little extra awareness and a shift in perspective, even the seemngly mundane can be fabulous.

A former yoga teacher of mine lives by a similar philosophy where every day and every thing is The Best. The best sunset ever. The best strawberry ever. The best roll of paper towels ever. Truthfully, we all know that not everything can be that rosy all the time, but just putting your mind in glass-completely-full perspective is 90% of the battle. Absorbtion comes with time–and practice.

Wouldn’t you like to go on a permanent vacation?

You can! You know that fancy bar of soap in your linen closet? Unwrap it, set it out next to the sink in a pretty little dish, and enjoy its triple-milled bubbles and French lavender aroma. Burn that decorative candle. Wear that fancy perfume or pair of earings. Take lots of photos. Sit on a park bench and soak in the sights. Savor dessert. Uncork that old bottle of dessert wine.

What are you waiting for?

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© 2009 Good Karma Housekeeping. Because less really is more.

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